Only One Son

Barb and Ray Payne (Parent Survivors)

In the fall of 1990, Ray and Barb Payne became associated with BASIS, a ministry under BCM International, directed toward grieving parents. Ray has also served as the Northeast Region National Trustee for C.O.P.S. – “Concerns Of Police Survivors, Inc.” and is the East Coast Regional Representative for Peace Officers For Christ International.

As a police chaplain, Ray found himself nearly overwhelmed in the aftermath of the terrorist attacks on September 11, 2001.  Even before the dust had settled, Ray was dispatched to assist at “Ground Hero” in NYC.  Over the next few months the Paynes ministered almost around the clock to grieving police officers, firefighters, and others effected by 9/11.

Since their son’s death, the Paynes have dedicated their lives to “being there” – at police funerals, memorials, and other times of need. Their involvement in ministry to the law enforcement community has provided needed support for grieving parents, spouses, and families, as well as co-workers and departments. Over the past twenty years, Ray and Barb have traveled extensively, encouraging churches and others to sponsor “Police Appreciation” events, as well as doing seminars.

Feel free to contact the Paynes if you need additional resources, would like to arrange a meeting or police event, or if you just need someone who will “be there” with you.